We are social creatures and this means that we interact with the environment in which we live, which contains vital elements such as people, animals, and daily events.Dealing with people and events around us makes us living creatures that have a great value and a great impact on the continuity of lifeBut this does not at all mean that we allow some people and certain things to enter and penetrate our private livesRandomness in social relationships and making the doors open for them usually brings us negative feelings and tension that we do not want.
How can we say no entry to what we do not want to enter into our lives?
1 simply say NO :
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Being nice does not mean that you have to say yes to everyone and to everything randomly
You have your own life and your own value do not overdo it for the sake of intruders who do not respect your privacy and think that you are always available 24/7, be clear with them from beginning .
2 impose some rules :
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Setting boundaries between you and the people around you is very important to maintain your relationship with them.
3 Be selfish, Be you :
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To love and appreciate yourself does not mean that you hate others , and to be different from your peers, this means that you are special. Do not be a copy of someone else in order to be acceptable and loved in life.
4 Manage your valuable time :
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You must receive a lot of invitations to go out and have fun with your friends or colleagues at work, which is actually a good thing, but if you do not have the time for that and you have tasks that you must complete, you can politely apologize from them, explaining that you have work that you should finish or maybe you do not have the desire to go out this day and your mood is not in place.
At the end, I have mentioned only four ways to prevent intruders from entering our private lives, but there are many other methods that you can use in this matter. You can look for them in books or on the Internet, and you can also create your own way to do so.
