Okay, okay, so, I'm about to go off. I found out by my sister telling me I'm too skinny to be self conscious that this is something people say! What the hell? Being on the thinner side doesn't mean you can't be uncomfortable with your body. I was borderline anorexic last year. I would starve myself until I couldn't take it. I wouldn't eat breakfast, I wouldn't eat lunch, maybe I would eat something small when I got home but that was rare. I would go to softball and/or boxing and then eat something small after. I was a mess. No one knew, of course, but that's besides the point. Don't tell someone they are too skinny or too thin to be self conscious or uncomfortable with showing off their body or shit like that. There's no such thing! That's like telling a girl with a sharp jawline she should be thankful she has one and not complain. Some people don't want that. Shut the fuck up! It's not your damn body. You don't know what people are feeling. You don't know what they're going through. Don't you dare tell someone they are not allowed to feel how the feel. This is coming from someone with very strong empathy and emotion sharing problems. Don't ever, EVER, tell someone they can not feel how they are feeling. You make it worse. If you tell someone that they shouldn't be happy or sad or whatever, you are making them think that the emotion is wrong. This makes them start pushing it down and not knowing when they can share emotions. I swear, if I ever hear someone say this, I am going to go off.
