"Don't feel sorry, change your mindset and act it out, listen, if you take care of yourself, which involves eating healthy,not starving yourself, more fruits and vegetables, less junk, e.t.c, pride yourself in who you are, and square your shoulder courageously, chin up, ready to take on the world, trust me you'd outshine a hundred slim women. Baby love yourself, besides you're still young, there's puberty to consider, you might end up outgrowing this stature, that's if you don't kill yourself first.