MULTIFANDOM THEORY (BTS, MONSTAX, TWICE ETC.)

the meaning: the unbearable lightness of being 2

♡ Jin ♡
" If I could turn back time I want to be the best man in the world."

Jin represents being and not being ( imagination). He takes photos of the situations and is neutral.
Do you know what I want to say? What's the answer?
In highlight reel there happen two situations on the same day.
On 30th August the girl dies when Jin & she wants to meet.
On 30th August Jin stays home and doesn't meet the girl.
But why? It is the situation of being and not being? In my opinion yes. We imagine something we think it could happen but it the end it turns different. It's a part of us.
In Answer there are two Jins, one in light and the other in dark. The one goes out without the book, it rains, the scence reverses, he is at home again but disappears. It seems to be a "not being" scence.
The other Jin goes out with the book and it seems to be like a "being" scence.
What does it means?
He realizes that he have to love himself, even when he has lightness AND heaviness inside because he wouldn't be himself when he hadn't both.

It means that he must regret the bad things he have done, accept that they are a part of him and move forward.

It means that he should not live only one life like he has never lived. He should live for himself too.

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The message
Why couldn't we decide for lightness?  The life would be easier.
Because the human experiences everything for the first time, he can't know what's right and what's wrong. He must accept himself to find out what's the meaning of the life.
Even when the lightness sounds wonderful and  positive it isn't always.
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So what's the answer? Do you know it? We all know it's about love yourself. What does it mean?
Right. Love yourself, even if you have lightness and heaviness inside you, even if you have warmth - cold, light - darkness,  fineness - coarseness, being - not being inside you, without them you wouldn't be yourself.
The warmth wouldn't exist without the cold, the light wouldn't exist without the darkness,  the fineness wouldn't exist without the coarseness, being wouldn't exist without 'no being' and...
The lightness wouldn't exist without the heaviness.
But what if they exist without them? Would you call it happiness,  lightness etc., in  a world without heaviness?  No. In my opinion it would be fake.
This is the reason why it's called....

The unbearable lightness of being.
The fight of our real feelings.
This is what makes us to a human, a loyal friend, a lovely family member etc. We have to find our place in this world by loving yourself first.

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Love yourself,  change what you want to change,  be yourself in a good way, accept yourself and learn from your failures. You never walk alone. You are the creator of your beauty.
I hope it helps you to look forward 😊❤.

  Strong power, thank you.
( If you have questions, just ask me)
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