TW// sexual abuse, childhood grooming & molestation
Hello everyone, I'm sorry it's taking me so long to update but I am working on the next few chapter so there will be updates soon. Recently though, I have been thinking about the content of this story and the characters.
I was reading around on Twitter and saw that some authors were discussing how they felt weird with younger readers reading there stories because they didn't want them to get the wrong idea about sexual relationships. So I just want to put this out for younger readers who might not have been educated about sexual assault growing up.
As a reminder at this point of the story Yoongi is a 17 year old boy while the other member's ages range from 19 to 25. The point of this story is just to watch their relationships advance deeper and more sexually. And at this point the members relationship with Yoongi is more friendly and they are starting growing connection with him.
That is NOT normal or okay.
Right now, Yoongi is being groomed. Being groomed is when an adult befriends a minor (0-17) in order to gain their trust and sexually abuse them. This can happen to anyone, it could've happened to you and you might not have realized it. Grooming leaves out no one, you can be a boy or a girl, they don't care if you're in elementary school or high school, it can happen to anyone and anyone can do it; teachers, family friends, family members, or even any older friends you may have.
Recently this has happened to my own family member. Her own god father who had been a major apart of her life since she was born, molestes her when he took her on a shopping trip. This is a man that everyone in her family knew and trusted. She immediately told her mom after and when they tried to contact him he just disappeared.
It may be uncomfortable to think and talk about but if you think this happened to you tell an adult. It's absolutely not okay. If you tell someone it can stop the person (the sex offender) from doing the same to someone else and have a possibly worse outcome.
Also, the actual BTS would never support this kind of relationship, this is a work of complete and total fiction. I know it sounds dumb saying this but there might be some people who read stories and assume the members are about that life. But BTS is against sexual abuse and would never condone it.
Here are the stages of childhood grooming from OWN.com, these are actual stages provided by a doctor:
Rất tiếc! Hình ảnh này không tuân theo hướng dẫn nội dung. Để tiếp tục đăng tải, vui lòng xóa hoặc tải lên một hình ảnh khác.
Rất tiếc! Hình ảnh này không tuân theo hướng dẫn nội dung. Để tiếp tục đăng tải, vui lòng xóa hoặc tải lên một hình ảnh khác.
Rất tiếc! Hình ảnh này không tuân theo hướng dẫn nội dung. Để tiếp tục đăng tải, vui lòng xóa hoặc tải lên một hình ảnh khác.
Rất tiếc! Hình ảnh này không tuân theo hướng dẫn nội dung. Để tiếp tục đăng tải, vui lòng xóa hoặc tải lên một hình ảnh khác.
Rất tiếc! Hình ảnh này không tuân theo hướng dẫn nội dung. Để tiếp tục đăng tải, vui lòng xóa hoặc tải lên một hình ảnh khác.
Rất tiếc! Hình ảnh này không tuân theo hướng dẫn nội dung. Để tiếp tục đăng tải, vui lòng xóa hoặc tải lên một hình ảnh khác.
I don't know if it will work but here is the link to the article: http://www.oprah.com/oprahshow/child-sexual-abuse-6-stages-of-grooming/all
