The Wrong Kind of Love

Putting my foot down !

** Several months later Andy and Ryan both woke up and they laid in bed a little just like they usually do , they have now moved into their first home together.. it's a good size home with four bedrooms two bathrooms, a kitchen and living room, with a separate laundry room and a basement... they can easily stay in this home until they have their second or even third child before moving into another house... Today Andy will put her foot down and step up for herself and for her unborn child! She's now six months pregnant and Ryan really hasn't been the best partner for the love of his life, Andrea ! He says he can't wait to see them being partners and parents to their children... but sometimes he becomes anxious about being a first time father and he gets a little aggressive and possessive over his and his future wife**

Monday November 18 th 2010

8h47 am

Ryan : good morning babe! I made you breakfast! Eggs with bacon and two toast with strawberry jams just like you like them!

Andy : hrmmmk thank you my love!
This actually smells delicious!
What time is it now ?

Ryan : it's 8 h 37 am
And I'm not going to work today so I'll cuddle with you all day long!

Andy : alright!! I love the sound of that! The perfect day ! But babe, I'm telling you this very calmly again ... and I'm not going to tolerate it anymore! You can't force yourself into me like this, if I say I don't want you to fuck me so hard or whatever it is , I'd like you to stop! And also you left your hand print on my neck babe! And I'm red on my legs too!
Ryan : right I'm sorry! I'm just too excited that you are carrying my baby .
Andy : yea that's right, and I should be cared for with lots of kisses and cuddles and not abusive sexual encounters! Sometimes I'll want to have sex with you, the hormones are kicking in lately but please respect my decision if I randomly decide to stop having sex in a certain position or whatever it may be, I'm your fiancee and I will be asking you to treat me with kindness and respect that I deserve . And that goes for after the baby will be born too ! Understood? If it keeps happening I'm going to leave you and I don't want to do that! Okay ? You're the love of my life, Ryan Tanner !

Ryan : yesss I absolutely understand that and I'm sorry for hurting you... it wasn't my intention to do that and to make you feel uncomfortable like that! I'm soooo sorry! Please forgive me?

Andy : hrmmmm ! Alright, thank you for respecting my boundaries.
Because you know that being pregnant is making me more vulnerable and emotionally unstable sometimes... like I've tolorated a lot of things during the past ten years and now that I'm pregnant I will no longer want to be called a slut or a whore just because I'm not wearing pants... it's actually really hard to find something that fits and feels comfortable and flattering on me as my body expands in size and I can't even see my own two feet anymore.. because I'm already so big ...
I'm serious about it. And that goes for after the birth, I don't want to be rushed into getting back into my pre pregnancy body... because let's be honest, I might never be able to get my pre pregnancy body ever again, and if you keep making comments about my weight and sometimes I might not even want to be touched by you for a while.. depending on how I give birth to our beautiful children...

Understood?

Ryan : yesss ! I'm really really sorry for the past comments if I made you feel uncomfortable about it and I apologize for that, I love you so much babe! You and me go waaaaaaaaaaay back to elementary school, we've been best friends ever since then . ANd I don't want to lose our relationship with you...

Andrea : Okay.  Good, I forgive you for the past few months.... owww ! Our baby keeps kicking especially in the morning and when the night time comes ! He or she usually sleeps in the afternoon!
Ryan : yea !  Do you have any name suggestions for either gender?
Andrea : I don't actually.. and honestly it's starting to stress me out so can we talk about names today and the following weeks ?
Ryan : yes of course babe! Okay let's google some names right now and add the last name Tanner in our research to see which one we love and don't love!