focus on yourself.
the life you've been given is YOURS, so it's not selfish or self centred to put yourself first or to do what makes you happy.
others are all caught up in there own lives too, so seeking out others' validation isn't going to be what's best for you in the long run.
nothing lasts, and the only constant is yourself.. you'll always have yourself. so once you value your own life, value your happiness, wants and needs, everything else will come.
sometimes you'll need to grow as a person and individual in order to love others and continue on as a strong woman.
you need to love yourself and accept yourself before you can love others. i know it may be hard to feel ok with being alone, i'm still working on it myself. I tend to put all my love and energy into people that I can seek comfort in, people that can fulfill me, which winds up in me feeling lost when those people leave. so i'm saying this not only to my self, but to urge you to accept yourself and find fulfilment within yourself.
i love you,
-L
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{ the guide for teen girls + life lessons }
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