A healthy relationship still has arguments.
A moody girlfriend against a tired boyfriend
But it isn't war.
It's feelings that just need to be talked about.
Reminders that need to be repeated.
Because after all we are human.
The difference between a healthy relationship and a bad one
Is that when we fight it's not with each other but us against the problem
It's not going to bed feeling like you lost
But it's both people feeling like they won because they are going to bed together.
Healthy arguments never end with holes in the wall
Bruises on the skin.
Screaming so loud the neighbours call the cops.
Healthy isn't afraid
But healthy isn't perfect.
