Hope Is Never Lost

Part 10 You're in love:

People misunderstand 3 feelings so desperately.

First, affection thinking they are in love.
Second, lust, thinking they are in love.
Third, attraction thinking they are in love.

Love is not just a feeling, it's every object and kind of thing that heals something they never break. Same goes for humans as well.
Love, affection, attraction, lust, has a lot of similarities that confuse us.
Love lust affection attraction has all of these qualities. 1: We feel warmth in their presence, 2: we feel safe around them, 3: we feel comfort even if we are alone with them, 4: we are appreciated by them, 5: we get compliments, 6: they heal many things in us.
7: They make us fall in love with ourselves and everything around us, also nature and animals and strangers.
But this is not always love, they can be lustful even if you have scars and you think its impossible for a man to reach for your body because they will probably hate you for your insecurities, but remember sister lust is a need for a certain time, age. Men go mad if they don't get it, then they rape little 8 years old girls too, mens can easily turn into beast after making you fall in love with his outside innocent roles. They are hard to read, they will never open-book themselves in front of us
There can be only few loyal mens but they are hard to recognize in toxic and manipulation, narcissist society mens who got all those qualities of loyal men but are hypocrites wearing a different mask for different relationships.
Girls are so hard to get in trap but they have now got the education that every girl needs comfort, love, support and if you give her all this then no one in world can rob her from you not even her parents, she will fight with them just for the stranger like you. Some daughters who don't get father's love tend to believe those mens easily, it's harsh i swear to God no father should treat his daughters differently also sons, because it doesn't take years it takes your life trying to heal that part of you which was not loved by your parents but constant abuse from both father and mother.
But men do act like they understand and they do, but it can be attraction not love, because those women are called by these men that they are hard to love when they break up.

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I can't describe what is love, but love is when men don't give you reasons why he loves you, he also accepts that I don't know why but i have dated a lot of beautiful girls but i never loved them like i fell for you in the very first meeting, and you will be able to read his face seeing you like someone sees his favorite dessert in front of them after thinking of that specific dessert.
They will tell you they don't love you because your eyes are beautiful, they don't love you because your skin smells so good, they don't love you because your hair are so magical,
They don't love you because your character is sinless, they don't love you because you are good and loyal to him but he loves because he doesn't know why the hell he loves you, he has no idea why he became someone so strange after meeting he can't even recognize himself because he was never like that person before.
He will tell you he likes you but will cherish what you cherish, if you like your family he will learn from you and like them as well as you do even in your absence too.
His favorite is everything that was once just, your favorite.
He doesn't need to be artificial and tell you 24000 words to let you know how gorgeous you are in his eyes. And how he is so amazed and stunned by your beauty, he doesn't need to explain to you anything this is how love is he will speak your soul language that will make you both understand each others silence and actually fell asleep in that silence peacefully without unhealthy breaths, or fast and slow heartbeats but just normal like you would be around someone else from your family.

To be continued.....

Anyone reading this.!! Know that love is so hard to recognize in this era, please marry someone who will not bring burden, stress, anxiety.

Rakhshanda Saeed