You guys were adults, after graduating from collage, you moved on with your life with crush and you and crush adopt or had a baby.
Scenario 1 - Your child came home crying, you and crush were worried, your child ran over to you and said they were being bullied. What do you you?
Scenario 2 - it was your child's birthday. Your family and crush's family was there.
Scenario 3 - Your child told you and crush that they had a lover and that they were going out for dinner. How do you react?