UNDERSTANDING Men

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S : good morning Aaravji

A : hmm

S : is everything fine 😯

A : yeah...
ok...i'lll be late bye...

S : okay...try to come early 

A : hmm

S : (why is he ignoring me 😳)

A : bye

S : Have a goo..
He leaves from there without listening to her

S : what has happened to him 🤦🏻‍♀️
okay let's make his favourite food and i'll leave to my work..

she makes everything and leaves

at night , Aarav doesn't turn out for dinner ...it's been so late and even simar haven't had food...

he came home at  11.00pm and sees simar sleeping without havind food

and he bursts out

A : Simar , i have told u  , i'll be late , are u mad ? y r u waiting for me ?

even SImar gets angy actually all the emotions combining up...

she leaves everything , gives the food to out side vendors , and slams the door and sleeps 😑

Aarav sleeps on couch where as Simar sleeps on bed 😒

and the cold war actually happens for 3 days 
simar becomes so restless, she couldn't figure out what is actually happening......

and the 4th day...

A : simar....

S : what ...

A : actually , i need to..

S : u don't need  to tell me that u'll be late, i don't get bother for you and she slams the door

okayy..cool madam , Aarav mocks

cool like seriously, u messed up things n trying to solve now , Aarav subconscious mind mocked him........

At eveing

Simar sits in front of  mirror and speaks to herself , Aarav eavesdropped her , and listens to her ..

S : so what did went wrong , okay fine did i do wrong , he is just ignoring me...even i'm trying to make things better...okay wait....cool simar cool everything fill be fine ...may be he needs some time ...may be his "manny time"

Aarav finds that what he was actually unknowingly.....and tears fall from his eyes , he immediately  , hugs back Simar and says sorry...

A : sorry , i don't know...
actually everything went unintentional...sorry

S : Aww , it's fine...and pats his back...

A : no how can fine? i am reason and i scoff at you 😪

S : it's okk , even u need your space right ...and i think i blurted out without understanding you...sorry and unknowingly she starts having tears....

A : no tears ..don't please...

S : okay and hugs Aarav ....

A : i love you...

S : ah love you love you
 you know , Men are like rubber bands. When they pull away, they can stretch only so far before they come springing back. rubber band is the perfect metaphor to understand the male intimacy cycle. This cycle involves getting close, pulling away, and then getting close again.

A  : ahh, what are u  speaking ....?

S : nothing , 
u know it's important to have our  own mental space right.????

A: yes of course
 thankyou for understanding me , i seriously needed my space...

S : aww ,  Men instinctively feel this urge to pull away. It is not a decision or choice. It just happens. It is neither  your fault nor my fault that i did something wrong !!!. It is a natural cycle.

A : i am not getting your words Wifey...

S : okay common let's sleep

A : okay madam...

When a man loves a woman, periodically he needs to pull away before he can get closer

  it's so common to have our space , and it's imporatnt to be having our own mental space , at that time , as a partner we need to understand them ..and that  makes our relation even stronger ...just like Aarav and Simar

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