Conflict Avoidance Test

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1. I try only to say my opinions when I'm sure that there's less of a risk I will end up bashed for it.

2. First and third things are true. My childhood was and still is chaotic. My parents divorced when I was 9 and I got forced into a new sort of situation and family. I was given new siblings I had to learn to get along with and a new woman to see as my mother figure.  I didn't like her and often disobeyed her because, as I used to say, she's not my mother, so why should I listen? I have severe fears of rejection. It is why I don't like doing homework in front of my parents in fear of them believing I am terrible at school and I get into some sort of trouble. It is why I have gotton so fearful of telling someone my feelings for them. My feelings that I feel for someone are things I hold near and dear to my heart. I don't want them to be pulled apart. I'd rather see my crush end up with such a more amazing person than me or become a successful person by themselves than to hear them say the simple words of "no" or "I'm sorry..." to me. It tears me apart. I'd honestly rather die than embarrass myself like that. I have never, not once, confessed my feelings for someone. The only way I will ever be in a relationship is if someone asks me first. I'm sorry. And I know that there are people I may like in the future that are the exact same way as me, but I just can't do it myself. I'm also very attracted to confidence, so if someone confessed to me, that immediately shows me that they're confident, which I like! Mostly because it is the opposite from me.

3. I dunno. I think I handle controversial topics well and ethically. I'm extremely open-minded.

4. I've done all of these lmao.

5. I'm terrible at standing up for myself soooo.. yeah, that's not gonna happen! I'm better at standing up for other people.

6. Not always, though! Even though positivity is probably best to start with.

7. I'm not gonna be able to change that.

8. huh.

9. That's me, I think! I do that :D (reminds me of that Vine: ahahah... i do that. lmao)

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