Am I The Asshole?

Chapter : 3

Am I wrong for telling my sister's in law dressing is inappropriate?

Source : Reddit

" my sister in law is my younger brothers fiance and soon to be wife, both her and my brother 26, I met her when she was 18 when she first started dating my brother and we've had a pretty good relationship, since then she's been wearing a lot of revealing outfits, at first I wouldn't comment on it but as my brother's relationship with her got serious, my parents and I believed we should tell my brother to tell her to dress more propriately, whenever we bring it up to my brother he gets mad and tells us to mind our business, once he got engaged, we believed that finally she'll be more serious and look out for her image as she's supposed to be a wife soon enough and later a mother. We were wrong, she didn't only not start dressing more propriately but she got worse, whenever we'd bring up to my brother, he tell us that we can't police what she wears and he just couldn't understand how's this disrespectful of her. To be honest, she didn't dress in revealing clothes to family gatherings, like Christmas or thanks giving but she wears those outfits on her birthday or my brother's birthday whenever they hang out alone or with friends. My brother's birthday was last week and we were invited to his party before that my parents and I agreed that if she dressed inappropriately again, I'll call her out

{ UGHHH you dump piece of shit 😑I hate ppl like that, 🙄 mind ur business like why do you care? She's not ur finance and it's her body and like what the... She's a grown up woman she can do whatever she wants like your brother is okay with it. WHY DO YOU CAREEEE 🙄🙄🙄}

" As always she was dressed inappropriately, she wore skin tight pants and a crop top that looked like a bra. I took her aside and told her that she should start behaving like a seriously engaged woman because that's not a look a woman in a committed relationship should have since it's disrespectful toward my brother but also us

{ seriously? How is this disrespectful to you? It's like bcoz u got a man u can't dress freely or how u like }

" she cursed me out and then told my brother who also cursed me out and kicked me and my parents out of the party, friends and relatives who were at the party told me that she was dressing inappropriately but I also Crossed the line and I should keep my openion to myself my brother's friends on the other hand apparently all believed I'm THE asshole and that instead of me, my brother should tell how my sister in law dresses. So AITA?

Yes yes you are! Like why do you care? She's not ur fiance, she didn't insult you in any way and it's not ur place to tell her how to wear 😩

What do you guys think? Lemme know in the comments, what would you do if you were in Her place? I would've minded my own business. Please vote