Am I The Asshole?

Chapter 9

" AITA for sneaking out of the restaurant after my fiance told me to pay for his and his friends meal?"

" I (33F) been engaged to my fiance (37M) for 5 months. We don't share finance because that's what he wants. I got a raise on my salary. Now I earn 30% more than he does and I noticed that he's been using this to ask me to pay for his and his friends. Whenever I say "No" or "why should I pay for this?" he responds with "the 30% that's why". He acts as if the 30% is unfair or that I'm not deserving of it."

" several times he has tricked me into paying for his and his friend's meals by asking me publicly. Let me say that I'm too nice to say "no", I hate confrontation especially when we're at a public place like a restaurant so I just grin and pay "

" last Tuesday, he asked me to join him and his friends for dinner. I told him from the start I wasn't paying for their food and he shouldn't expect me to. He said "I got this" and "no worries".

" we got to the restaurant. me his friends, ordered food. And in the middle of the meal he leaned in and whispered that I would be paying for everything he and his friends ordered."

( what the mf two faced bitch! Jerk definitely NTA he is)

"i got so mad and whispered back "nooo" but he probably relied on me not causing a scene in public and infront of his friends. He said " you have enough money, you could pay everyone's food, 30% remember?"

(he's jealous obviously)

" i was fuming inside. Instead of reacting negatively and losing my temper. I waited till the bills arrived (they were already split from the start when we first ordered) I paid for mine then excused my self to the restroom. I then sneaked out from there, got into my car and went home."

" i started getting phonecalls from my fiance then texts asking where I was. I texted back saying I didn't appreciate how he put me in this situation and basically tricking me into paying his and his friend's food. I told him I went home then stopped replying. An hour later he came and started yelling at me and called me selfish, irrational, cheapskate and childish for sneaking out like that and leaving him stuck with a bill he couldn't pay ( He had to call his brother for help.) we had a loud argument then he walked out. "

" his friends didn't speak to me about on this but he told me they're disappointed in my behavior and are telling him to take time and "reflect" on the type of woman he's gonna be married to."

AITA for what I did? Is what he's expecting from me fair or justified?

Some info :

1) he said that because the restaurant wasn't expensive and I could have just paid

2)he admitted not telling me about it till later knowing I'd refuse. He still think that my reaction was childish and unacceptable.

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Obviously he's jealous bcoz she makes more money than he does and he's trying to justify himself and he probably told his friends lies about you. You deserve someone better I say leave him before your get yourself into more trouble because he's a selfish, unreasonable asshole.like why? Why why why why? Unjustified, jealous Asshole. Really pissed me off

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