( Ok, so I'd like to start this off by saying: This ain't a competition for who gets a gf and who gets a bf )
( Don't rush your relationships, like, everyone irl keeps saying: "Oh my god, I have a girlfriend/boyfriend crush/relationship! You should have gotten one too" and I'm here like:
"You do know that in a few years you're going to forget them, right?" )
( Like, you don't need to have a crush to be validated. I see some people thinking that irl, they have a mentality that basically just says: "You need a crush or relationship of some sort to survive"
( Hey, if that's what you wanna do, go for it! It's not affecting me physically, so keep on lovin' )
( Just, like, calm the frick down with the relationships! Stop going flash on life! Like, honestly! Live life! Live it how you wanna! Don't speed rush it like you're trying to beat a level on a video game! )
( Also, internet relationship people. BE CAREFUL )
( It's normal for someone to betray you and backstab you, or even stalk you on the internet. Don't have the mentality that they won't do it because they "seem nice" )
( Lot's of people "seem nice", then when you get to know them you're going to see faults and then wanna break up. )
( Love your lover, sure. But always keep that in mind, it might happen. Don't give them everything then yourself nothing. That's not a healthy relationship! )
( Don't rely on your partner, don't cling onto them and have the mentality: "They die, I die." )
( You need to have support too! You both need to be strong, both need to stand strong when things get tough! You both need a healthy mindset! That can be achieved by doing tons of things! Listening to calming music, eating healthier, watching youtube videos on how TO have a healthy mindset. That stuff! )
( So, there is that- )
