Hey y'all, so this topic has recently been brought to tiktok and I saw a lot of new and different viewpoints on this matter, and because of that I am editing what I said about this.
Fetishization of mlm: what is it?
fetishization of mlm is when women find gay men hot and are attracted to gay men because they are gay(the men) and I am not here to tell you want you can and can't find hot bc I can't control that and neither can you really. So no you're not necessarily a bad person if you do find gay men/gay relationships hot as a woman; it's what you do with that that could make you a bad person. Basically as long as you treat gay men the same way you treat everyone else and treat them like the respectable human beings they are and not as something that exists solely for your enjoyment, then you're fine.
Is watching gay porn or consuming a lot of bl media bad if you are a woman?
no, as long as whatever media you are consuming accurately portrays gay men and doesn't reinforce any harmful stigmas about gay men then it is perfectly fine.
Thanks, alivia :D
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rating and reviewing queer shows, dramas, and novels
Randomwhat the title says. this is just my opinions bc I have have no where else to put them. also this does not include yaoi. I just added more sapphic media as well an im too lazy to change the cover
