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Ask: Alucard Aizawa D -safe word

Do you see Alucard, D, and Aizawa using a safe word when being intimate with their s/o?

These are always good questions on safe words. I am going to do a refresher on safe words first. There are of course levels of safe words. The simplest is a nonsexual word. Examples are peaches, states and colors. When the safe word is used, it means stop immediately.

A more complex use is also a color code of green, yellow and red besides a simple word. More complex BDSM relationships use colors also.

They should be short. Have heard aardvark works with a gag in your mouth. Example of too long is : back that horse right out! Though it gives the partner a pretty good idea that he's too big and you need to adjust.

I believe that even with vanilla sex has need for one. Use your safe word and don't be afraid to use it. You're not a wimp!

Certain sexual positions(rear engry) add to the higher chance of bruising your cervix and actually 'knocking' an ovary or called ovarian Torsion. Just sounds painful writing this and worse to experience. Though I have heard 'bashing' the prostate is also horrible.

Think of black balls in men. Testicle takes a spin and circulation gets cut off. It dies. Your ovaries can do the same except as women we can't know except extreme pain. Having experienced such a thing, the pain level is so high, you have to have one say through gritted teeth or such.

Okay now that your head is swimming with words and painful imagery, on to this Ask...

•🥢Shouta/Shota Aizawa Vanilla style

•he's the kinda person who will use a safe word even in less intense vanilla sex. Sometimes girls need lubricant, more lubricant or he's larger than normal (blue balls, you look amazing in certain clothes etc)

•He likes rear penetration as he can get deep in you and wants to know immediately if something is wrong or something happened.

Note: asking to have lubricant is a good thing. Fanfiction tends to write that all are gushers...no they are not.

•a must with a bdsm relationship. The Dom needs to stop the scene quickly and establish aftercare immediately. It's his job in the relationship to make you feel safe.

•🪢Aizawa & Kinbaku (not Shibari)

•Shouta is a master at rope works due to his underground work and his capture weapon. Shibari (pretty art knotting and Kinbaku have roots in the history of binding prisoners) Villains don't deserve a safe word but you do. It most likely includes colors and a onverbal gesture. The squeezing of a finger is gagged too.

•part of the safe words and color levels is breathing exercises so rope cutters can be used quickly. There is still a certain amount of time to cut a person free and a panicked, straining partner is not a great situation.

•🍷Alucard/Allycard (girlycard)

•an absolute and must with a vampire! Their strength and feral tendency to use their fangs.

•Alucard having three different types of persona, the safeword may change subtly: Vladcard I'm pretty sure yelling 'plague!' would stop him in his tracts. As for Ally, 'Walter' is probably not a good choice. Alucard, it would be some snarky word that gets him to laugh immediately and stop.

•blood references probably not a 'safe' choice.

•⚜️Vampire Hunter D

•at first probably doesn't have or doesn't know to have a safe. He's not exactly a virgin at 10,000 years old but he has grave concern about losing control of his Vampiric side and due to being Sacred Ancestor's son, he can create full blown vampire Nobility.

•Not much for words and being reserved, the idea of a safe word relaxes him.

•He will be more experimental in sex and less rigid in body and mind during such intense intimacy.

•Unfortunately with Lefty (his carbuncle demon) you might just need a safe word to shut him up or stop licking you. Ugh!






Safe words
https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2016/05/110999/most-popular-safe-words

Ovarian torsion
https://www.webmd.com/women/what-to-know-ovarian-torsion

Kinbaku
https://hero-magazine.com/article/130088/unpicking-the-subtleties-of-kinbaku-the-ancient-japanese-art-of-bondage-tying

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