A man came to the prophet Muhammad (may peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and asked him (Peace and blessings be upon him) for advice. He(Peace and blessings be upon him) said,
"Do not became angry" The man repeated his request for advice and each time the Prophet replied with this one phrase that sums up all good attitudes and behavior: "Do not become angry" (Bukhari)
Anger can be like a fire. And you can't possible combat fire by another spark of fire or pouring fuel into it. This would result in a massive fire that would swallow everybody, including yourself.
1. Feel free to delay your reaction. It wont bruise your dignity nor tarnish your image. You can end your presence in this situation.
2. React with calming statement
3. Kids dont like unpleasant tone. It will become a monster to them.
4. The Prophet never took revenge for his own sake, but if the laws of Allah were violated, he would take revenge for the sake of Allah
5. Remain wise and apply the virtue of patience.
Avoid negativity!
