The Baby Momma, The Wife and The Side Chick

The Baby Momma

I had seen a couple pictures of Trey and his whatever she wanted to be called at dinners and out and about but I knew better than to trust anything on the Internet.

Me: Trey why are you all over town with the devil. What's that about?

Trey: she's crazy. I don't know what she thinks is going to happen but you know I'm trying

Me: but why? What does she have on you?

Trey: she has important things of mine and I've tried to talk to lawyers or write her a check but she's demanding these meetings. I seriously think something is wrong in her head

Me: you need to get her evaluated. What has she said about the baby? Have you gone to any of the appointments?

Trey: she's doing some type of holistic thing or something without testing. Told her I wasn't paying for anything until a paternity test but she's been resistant

Me: you need to go and demand that. Talk to her sister because she knows the deets and what type of personal stuff does she have?

Trey: just things from my past. You know a lot of records that I was holding onto for my own ears.  A couple things that I just don't want to get out

Me: anything I should be worried about? You know I don't like surprises and that bitch always comes with something. You know I told you that she was trouble from the get go

Trey: what was I supposed to do? I thought I was in love wit her

Me: how could you be in love with her when you got with her about a week after we took a break and don't even start with that first sight stuff because that doesn't explain the groupies

Trey: I thought you was coming here trying to be a friend

Me: I am but you can't just ignore the path that led to all of this. I mean you didn't even tell me anything about her until you got married and basically forced her on me and the kids. I can't take that and that's where the friendship ends because you and me were more than that and you didn't just hurt me, you hurt the kids too

Trey: I know Diamond. You don't have to tell me about that whole ordeal anymore.  I was there. I listened to the numerous angry voicemails and shit. I mean you didn't make it easy and I wrote a couple songs about the whole ordeal but look at were we are today. I would like to think that as long time companions and co-parents we made this work and will continue to focus on the kids. I know I fucked up with you and the kids and I'm still working on that but you know that I didn't deserve this. She's going to drive me to go crazy

Me: I don't know what to tell you. You out here probably flaunting on her and making her feel like she's nothing so she's out for blood. But a pregnancy is hard and no woman ever wants to do it alone so fall backs and she'll calm down. I know that you have the need to constantly be around women but maybe try and cool it for a second. I'm not telling you how to run you life but show her some respect.

Trey: I am but she just has a way of pushing all of my buttons. It's just so annoying and I don't know if I can handle it anymore.

Me: cut the bullshit now and tell me what's really going on. You wouldn't be stressing this much over Toya. Does this have anything to do with thing two now?

Trey: wow. You and these nicknames and listen I'm not even going to go there with that. I know you and me aren't on that level yet and I know that all this shit talk about my women feel like reopening some wounds. So how's life treating you?

Me: I'm good. Just taking care of the kids and working. You know the hustle never stops

Trey: and what about Caleb? You spending time with him

Me: that's not a concern for got you to have but if you want to know he says hello

Trey: oh so you texting other niggas when he not around. I see how it is

Me: what the hell you taking about? If you want to be all up in my details you'll be happy to know that he's in bed reading a book.

Trey: well listen I got a busy day tomorrow and I know I'm supposed to take the kids for the night but I have some female business that I need to attend to for a bit. Would you mind switching for the weekend or what?

Me: no that's fine with me. The kids said that they had fun in Houston and I appreciate you making it special for them. Just text me with what days you want and maybe I'll be nice and let you take them on other trips

Trey: haha whatever. Okay. Have a good night

After getting off of the phone with Trey I had to turn my attention towards Caleb. He was in town for the week snd we definitely had to make the most of it.

Me, "I know this must seem so strange to you. The way that me and him communicate"

Caleb, "I mean I think it's cool. I'm not threatened by it or anything. But he seems to be going through a lot of drama night now and I don't want you to get caught up in that"

Me, "oh I know and I will not be. You know I'm a pretty patient snd understansing person but he knows that those two other things in his life are totally not conversion topics that I'm willing to discuss ever. He wouldn't push that far"

Caleb, "listen in here to support and help you out in any way I can. I know things with him can be tricky at times but just know that I have your back. I'm not the flashiest dude out there and right now I'm hustling my ass off to give you the world that we deserve but know that this is a forever thing between me and you"

Me, "and babe don't worry about trying to please me. Like this is a two person relationship and I need to make sure that you understand that the lifestyle Trey has is cool and can be attractive at times but I've lived through it and it's not what I want for my kids or myself. I want a man who believes that they can spend the rest of their life with and be happy with me. I want someone that wants to grow old with me and travel the world. Trey isn't in that mindset and even though we had a great past I don't look at him anymore in the dawn fashion. He just did so much stuff to piss me off that I can't do anything but just accept that he's the father of my kids and we have to be in each other's lives"