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at the end of the day,
we're all just humans who make mistakes often.
it's better to forgive them, it's better to not hold grudges, it's better to let it slide.
it brings peace to everyone involved, it doesn't make anything better or reverse any actions but it calms you down.
it brings clarity.
afterall, what done is done, it can't be changed but the way we perceive it and react to it can make a whole lot of differences.
it's better to search for peace rather than revenge, what they did to you defines them, not you.
and doing all this, and applying a composed and calm mindness in your life is very tough, for sure, but, it's important to do so.
it's important to leave things that are not in your control.
it's essential to forgive, were humans, we can't live without each other.
the only unacceptable thing that one can do is be mean to themselves and let themselves repeat their last mistakes.
if someone wronged you, forgive them and move on with your life but don't, don't let them come back.
forgiving doesn't mean forgetting.
and i think we've all heard the quote, 'Forgive but never Forget.'
in the end, i think we all know what's better for ourselves; i just hope everyone can remember and reminisce about their past and the people in it, and try not to repeat anything that may harm them.