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"Please Ammi, just tell us few about your experience with marriage. I know abba is the best but what's the secret behind your endless love for him?" Aunty Ameerah begged ammi as we sat back in living room after taking dinner.
"Fine, truly, There's Nothing like secret about love, it get stronger every time you be yourself with your partner, There's no need of being fake because marriage is a matter of lifetime. You have to be you and I promise it works" Ammi said and we all nodded
"And marriage of course has certain important things you as a partner has to settle down & think of, and then discuss it with your spouse, things like time. Now time means life, the much time you gave your partner the more he felt loved, it doesn't matter how busy you're as far as you can find a suitable time just for you to settle down and free your minds to each other" she added, we all were listening attentively
"Things like politeness, showing your care makes him feel alive, he falls in love with life again and again anytime you acted kindly and show all your care. Others like romance" she said and I looked away, omg she's not going to say anything about that is she?!
"It doesn't only mean by putting on tight clothes and applying makeup you're being romantic, of course not. It's the way you express your love every time he's with you, the way you keep making him dizzy. The way you take away his mind, heart and breath away in a swift and sexy moves" omg I want to run away!! Is that ammi talking?!
"We still have things like communication, it shouldn't only be about what you need or want, it should also be what your partner wants, how you two are resolving issues, open up and tell each other everything. I don't think it's a big deal to tell your partner how you want the night to be and what you want him to do for you, the fact that you can strip off your clothes and lay nude beside him means you've become each other's soulmate, nothing should be hidden amongst the two of you just like the way you don't hide any part of your body from him" OMG!!!! I'll bury myself right in the cushion. WTH?! Ammi!!!
"I..Excuse me I ahm.." I want to escape but my voice was not helping at all
"Saleema you're not going anywhere, you guys forced me to talk and now that I started, no one is going anywhere. Uwar kunya wato anzo wurin ko?" Ammi snapped, I looked down at my fingers. Omg Ammi please change another topic!!
"Marriage means giving your all, because you expect his all. It's a lot of sacrifices, where you have to be strong enough to be able to make it. Wannan kunyan, I'm telling you better take that lullubi out of yourself and take care of your husband!" Ammi glared at me
"I'm telling you ammi iskanci ne wai ita kunya ai ba haka takeyi ba in the other room" ya Marwa who I could see was enjoying the convo said
"Help me tell them" Aunty Ameerah joined
"Ammi please, let's talk about something different. Banda wannan" I told ammi
"Keee! We are liking the way it's going hajiya kiyi mana hakuri" Ya Marwa said
"When you try to give at least all you can, you'll find things much easier. Discuss with your spouse, tell him how you feel, what you want. Don't hesitate to let him know how much this relationship means to you, trust him, tell him how you want your nights to be, where you want to feel his hands on. Actually I see no reason why you feel shy for this, since you're able to bath with him in the same shower..." I don't know when I quickly hide my face with my hands
"Haba Ammi it's okay wallahi thank you soo much" I told her
"Fine, let me go check on Ayya wether she'd need anything" she chuckled and went away ignoring Aunty Ameerah and ya Marwa who were begging her not to go, shameless girls
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