Thoughts Of A Muslimah

♥Love♡ 《pt.2》

Halal love ♥♥

One of the main things that people think wrong about Islam is that it forbids love,  well think again IT DOESNT!!

in fact,  Islam is a religion that supports love, especially between a man and a woman, but it supports #Halal_love

What is better than halal love?? And believe the quote that says "true love comes after Nikah"

Yes it does sisters, yes it does and that is why relatioms are haraam...

My friend and I had a argument one day about why relations are haraam. She said in her defense that as long as they aren't touching nor sneaking out to see each other then why would it be haraam. Instead it is a way of knowing each other and maybe they can marry after it... so what is wrong in it?

I smiled at her defense and said, okay lets walk along with the knowing each other part and neglect the fact thay Shaytan is a professional planner. It starts with a smile, a wink, a stolen hand brush, a kiss on the cheek and so on.., but let's neglect all of those... okay and agree that a relation is a time to know the other partener. You knew him, you memorized his favourites his likes and dislikes and you knew him like the back of your hand and then you decide to marry.... okay, so what after marriage? What would happen? Simply nothing,  it becomes a routine. You wake up next to the same person, sleep next to him, live with him, eat with him, same old same, nothing new, same boring routine and then you get bored, both of u... and bam suddenly after all this love you say 'I am sorry I love you so much, but we can't continue. It is not working!'

How many cases of divorce happened becuase of this??  I'll leave the answer to discuss by yourself

And okay let's say you two didn't marry, what is the use of this relation... so she said experience and I asked her, what do you prefer a husband whom u were the first woman he touches,  loves and adores or the second,  third or whatever number you come

So she said of course one, but what does that have to do with this, so I said well Allah SWT says in his holy Quran that "Women of purity are for men of purity, and men of purity are for women of purity."(Quran 24:26)

Prophet Muhammad (p.b.u.h.) recommended Muslims to select those partners who are best in religion (Deen) and character.

"A woman may be married for four reasons: for her property, for her rank, for her beauty, and for her religion (and character), so marry the one who is best in the religion and character and prosper." (Bukhari and Muslim)

Prophet Muhammad (p.b.u.h.) assured the bounty of Allah to those who wish to get married and live a pure and clean life.

"Three groups of people Allah obliged Himself to help them: Mujahid in the cause of Allah, a worker to pay his debt, and the one who wants to marry to live a chaste life." (Tirmidhi)

Besides guys, even before you were born Allah has written your name besides your future husband, so why waste your time looking for him in the haraam way while he is going to come at the right time,  in the right place, in the halal way!!!

Wallah guys, take your time and read The story of the Prophet  SAW and khadija RA, his story with Aisha RA and his other wives.  They are hundred times better than romeo and juliet and all those romantic stories that people love now!!

And keep in mind,  as long as you pray and ask  Allah for the righteous husband He will surely give you what you deserve!!!
Just pray and work for it!

Hasba Nawayakom Torzakon!

you are given based on what your intentions are!