Life of an Indian Teenage Girl

Being the Villain

I always talk about cutting off toxic people and people who you think are not good for you but, have you ever thought of what it would be like to be that person?

I have. I think I am that person that a lot of people want to cut off from their lives for whatever reason. I can't help but wonder whether that long lost friend just faded away or cut me off because they considered me toxic. It could be.

I don't think a person can be toxic to everyone. If a person doesn't let you grow as a human, it doesn't mean they won't let others grow. That's why it's so important to not share your opinion about one person to another person.

You're just pulling down the person which means you are also not letting this person grow.

Toxicity is not all-or-none. If you know enough people, you're toxic to at least one person. You're the villain of their story. Even I am.

Just because you think a person is not right for you it doesn't mean they'll not be right for someone else. Just because a person is right for you it doesn't mean they'll be right for someone else.

I don't believe that the month we're born in has anything to do with our personality but, a lot of people seem to believe in it so let me give you an example. You know how some zodiac signs just won't get along with the other? But those same zodiac signs would be perfect for another. Aries is said to not get along with Cancer but, Aries is great with Leo.

The same way works for MBTI types too. So, just because you feel like someone left you because they felt you weren't good for them, it doesn't mean you're not good for anyone else.

At the end of the day, what's important is to be perfect for yourself. Just make sure you're not toxic to yourself. That's all you need to worry about. People come and go.

You should leave people and they will leave you too. That's ok.