"I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be."
― Douglas Adams, The Long Dark Tea-Time of the Soul
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People have their minds made up, about what they're going to do. A lot of people have plans, some don't even realize they have them. Plans change, that's just the way life is. Doesn't mean that bad things won't happen, but when they do, you just have to learn to pick yourself up again. When your plans change, they're just changing to fit a bigger plan, you could say. Things are ending up the way they're supposed to be, and you might not realize it right away...but something positive always comes from the negative. Don't give up yet. You'll soon see.
