This ride🚗💨

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This ride🚗💨

I'm more than my body. (Not that I have much of a body according to society.)

I'm more than my face.

Having a man doesn't make me feel like a woman.

Having a child doesn't make me feel like a woman.

Getting married wouldn't make me feel like a woman.

A man or a baby doesn't make me feel like I've flourished in my womanhood.

Marriage wouldn't make or break me in my element.

What makes me feel like a woman is the way I carry myself.

The things I accomplish for myself individually.

Getting my hands on the American dream life doesn't make me feel superior in my womanhood.

What makes me feel strong as a woman is establishing independence for myself.

Working towards establishing a career for myself.

Doing what I love. Which is writing in my truth.

Wearing comfortable clothing.

Having free curly hair.

Walking into a room and not caring about catching the eyes of a man.

Not feeling compelled to conform to society's expectations of how I should experience womanhood.

Defining myself for myself.

And defining what womanhood means to me on my own terms.

I want to be the woman I want to be.

I don't want to be what a man wants me to be.

At least not until I've fully grown into a woman all the way.

I need to understand this thing for myself first.

I have to control this ride, because if I don't, I will melt under pressure and I will surely crash.

I have to be behind the wheel for this ride. -J.S.

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