Tips for trans guys

Sexuality

Hey guys it's me again !

What a surprise , a new chapter ! 

I want to precise that I know sexual orientation and gender identity aren't the same things , but, we're gonna do it like , two birds on one stone .

Plus , it's an element I wasn't considering at all before , too focus on my gender , but now ...

So , I imagine some of trans persons are questionning their sexuality . 

I know that a lot of trans guys used to identify as lesbian before realise that they were trans .... Because they love girls . But I never do ... Did you ? 

I think it's pretty normal to don't have identified as lesbian before realise you're a guy when you're a guy who love other guy . Yeah ... Personnaly , I felt illegitimate by that , because I wasn't attract to women , I -sort of- start thinking I can not be a man ... 

BUT I WAS WRONG , don't go away guys ! I realise that trans boys can be gays , bi, or other .

I don't tell I'm gay . That's what I was thinking , for a loooong time , but ... I don't know . I mean , nude women's photos don't do anything to me , that's just like : "Ok she's pretty , but it would be fine with clothes ." But just a shirtless man and I'm like ... Y'a know !

But womens can be .... really , really pretty . I don't now if I can have an sexual attraction to them or if I just am mesmerize by their look . I can see a women photo and think she's pretty , but for the rest ... I'm attracted to women , but not in a sexual way ? Don't know ... After all , if Harry Styles say that "we're alla little gay" , so , that mean we are all a little straight too .  SOOO , Yep .

The only advice I can surely give you for that is to don't search to put you in a box "gay" "bi" "straight" or other and just love who you love without interdiction to match one box or another . (just , remember the bases , not with minors , no witout consent , not if the person aren't conscious or are drunk or on drugs .)