Break up. I found out during rehearsal today that B and J broke up over the weekend. According to one of her friends, they broke up because B kept arguing with her.
I have a lot of thoughts on their breakup, since I'm best friends with both of them.
Firstly, I think B needs a break from relationships. He needs some serious time to focus on himself and self-love without a partner. Since his nasty breakup with his ex, he's been in 2 relationships, neither of which ended well in the slightest. I feel like relationships take more out of him than anything else. I also feel like he needs to communicate his concerns with his partners in the future. He's been telling me his concerns, which is great since we're besties. But, he also needs to talk about those things with his partner.
Secondly, J needs to extend her break on boys. I know that her and B didn't date at first because she was mentally unstable and wasn't ready for a relationship. That is completely valid and I feel like she should deal with her mental health before hopping into another relationship. I also think her relationship with her ex is still affecting her, so she needs to deal with that too.
I'm worried that this may be awkward for my friendships with the both of them. Especially with girls, it's custom and expected for you to hate your best friends' exes. However, I'm best friends with both of them and will NOT drop them over social rules.
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