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#58 - How do I regain their friendship?

Agony Aunt, I used to have three friends this school year. But they ditched me after a year, leaving me really sad. Now I don't have many friends anymore. They don't call me or text me or email me, they talk about me behind my back, I don't know why they did all this stuff! I need advice on how to get them to be my friend again.- Friendless::Hey there,I will seriously answer your question in one question.Are these friends really worth getting back after the way they've treated you?If you can answer this question with a 'yes', then I have an issue with you.If you answer with 'no', then my answer is simple:Go out and mingle! Get new friends! You shouldn't spend time with people who don't appreciate you, and I think I've said this time and time again. You deserve the best. This means that if you've lost your former friends, you shouldn't wallow in a pit of self-pity but rather remind yourself of the fact that you do deserve the best, you deserve people who love you for you. Go out and find these people.Making new friends is not as hard as people think it is. You just have to go out of your way to say 'hello' to people, and to smile more often, and people will instantly be drawn to you. Find a new crew. I understand that this was an extremely short reply, but I wanted to make my point clear and concise: if your friends treated you badly and left you alone, then they are not people worth being friends with again. Find people who appreciate you. That is all.Love,- genie_us xx

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