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#30: How to; Understand the complicating nature of a Guy

#30: How to; Understand the complicating nature of a Guy

It's common for guys to send mixed signals to a girl that they like, or anyone for that matter. So when your trying to please or impress them, you might find yourself in a sticky situation. I don't know about you, but they usually leave me overthinking everysingle action and detail, so hopefully you find this helpful!

Situation 1: Okay so you just came back from an adorable date and he told you that he will call you. But he hasn't. And it's been three days. Three. Whole. Bloody. Days. At this point you are stressing out and you're worried that maybe you left the wrong impression. What if that awsome date didn't even go as well as you thought? What if your breath stank? Should you call him? But you don't want to come off as clingy so what do you do..?

Solution: Girl you need to calm your tits! Stop overthinking everything, it just ruins the fun in anything! Hakuna Matata people! (hello there lion king reference :P) The truth is, it probably didn't go as bad as bad as you thought. Maybe he doesn't want  to come as clingy aswell. Or he's probably using that stupid bro code, to wait atleast three days to call after a date. So get your panties out of its knot, because he could be calling any minute now!

Situation 2: Well there's this cute guy that helped you with your algebra homework that you were having some serious issues with and later on you both exchanged numbers! Woot woooot! But there's just one problem..he isn't replying. I mean who the hell does that? Who does he think he is, asking for my number, then simply ignoring me when i reply to his 'hey'. Guys are so confusing..

Solution: Hold up! Don't you think you're making a bit of a big deal here..c'mon. Okay I admit it really does my head in when the male species does that, but they have their own lives aswell. I bet you one thousand cookies that he is probably too caught up with his new Grand Theft Auto game. Relax. If he wants to talk to you, then he will make time for you, end of discussion.

Situation 3: OMG! That cute Zayn Malik look-alike that you were eye-raping for almost two weeks now sent you a message on Kik. Total 'asdfghjkl' moment. He even asked if you were going to that festival on the weekend, which you totally are! So you spend like an extra hour making yourself look extra fab, and when you get there he even pays you a compliment! So you end up having an AWSOME time going on rides together, sharing cotton candy and watching the late night fireworks. This unofficial date couldn't get any better. When you arrive home you log onto your facebook account to send the latest news to your bff! But something takes you by surprise. Whilst your casually stalking his profile page, you find out that literally twenty other girls posted on his wall saying how much fun they had, and thanking him for goodies he bought them. Now your confused.. I mean it could just be his cousins or something? Right?

Solution: As happy as I am for they great date that you had today, I need to break something to you. This guy is a serious player. Deny it all you want hun but even a blind man saw that coming. I get it, he made you feel very special, experiencing this intense feeling you've never felt before.  But this is what he does, he takes a girl out, soon to be ruining her lipstick, only to leave them ruining their mascara in the end (whaddup tutorial #27 reference). Well let me tell you something, let the players play, the haters to hate, because karma has a lovely way of handling their fate. What goes around, comes right back around. He made you feel like shit,  but don't worry later on a very blessed girl will come into his life only to have the priviledge to stomp all over his heart aswell, leaving him shattered. Or it can be you! Don't let someone play with your feelings as if it's toy.

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Until next Sunday/Wednesday,

Aya @Dream_Catchersxo