Okay so I know my AePete series will cause a bit of commotion so I wanted to clarify some things.
First of all, cheating is a shitty thing to do and no one deserves to go for that. But you have to keep in mind some cheaters are aware of their mistakes and regret them. I say "some" because some cheaters are aware of what they are doing and don't care. There is a big difference in these people, and the ones who regret it are the ones who you should forgive, if you ever consider dating that person again.
While I say forgive, I don't mean forget. It's easy to forgive people of their mistakes and it helps them move past them, but it is so easy for you to repeat something you did once. If they cheated on you, do not forget it. Forgive it, allow it to be a mistake made in the past, and move on. But do not forget that it had happened once. However, don't let this make you paranoid. You don't control their lives, you don't control their minds and their decisions. If they decide to cheat again, break up with them for good. But if they sincerely regret their actions, trust that they won't do it again. (If you try to control their actions it will lead to a whole other mess of problems)
Cheating causes major trust issues; don't let it ruin you. You can trust people again, you can love again. Not everyone will cheat on you. You just have to go though shitty relationships because life sucks like that. But you'll find someone who loves only you.
Ae in this series seriously regretted his actions and made the conscious decision to never do that again. Pete believed him. Will Pete forget it happened? No. Will he believe Ae when Ae says he won't do it again? Yes. This is healthy.
Obviously, the most important thing about this is to communicate. If you want to start a relationship back up, COMMUNICATE. Make sure you know that they won't do it again, make sure you both set boundaries and talk about your feelings.
This is my stance on cheating, if that cheating only happened once. Obviously, not every cheater will regret their actions. But most will, and if you want to try a relationship with them again, I think it is possible to have a healthy relationship after. If they cheat on you more than once, slit their throat. (Obviously don't actually do that but please be safe and stop associating with them)
I hope this made sense. It's like 1 am
Night y'all ❤️
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FanfictionI found these prompts on tumblr and decided that I wanted to write them. So this happened :) this is going to all be different ships from different shows so ... keep that in mind (they will all be pretty short!!)
