Hello my name is Dani and I am on a sudden and desperate search for a daddy to be a baddy for.
Since I ranted about things I need in a daddy, I noticed that I really need a daddy1!2!1!
So I'm on a mission
ONE GIRL
ONE DADDY
ONE MISSION
ONE SOON TO BE DISCOVERED LOVE
lmao but even if I got a bae I wouldn't know what to do
Like sure yeah I know the things couples do
But I'm 13, I'm smol
I don't have a license and I won't have one for the next 3 years and my bae wouldn't have a license either because I looking for someone at least 1-2 years older than me (prolly one though because 15 (would be turning 16) year old boys are weird)
I had a boyfriend once and within the first two hours he was like "I love you ❤️" and I was so weirded out that I dumped his ass
That was two years ago so I was 11 going on 12
I just didn't think that someone telling me that they love me within the first two hours of our relationship was a good sign
Like cmon give it two months or so
My sister and her boyfriend were like "I love you babe" within the first week, but they've known each other sense lik the fourth grade and they're juniors
I still think it's weird though
She thinks I'm gonna be a bad girlfriend since I don't like the idea of making out right off the bat, naming his contact "my baby 😘💋😍" and saying I love you every second.
But I just tell her that I don't want a relationship that literally everyone has nowadays
Like she and I are completely different, so obviously I'm gonna move at a different pace than her.
I mean, for example, on her first ever date with her current boyfriend, she made out with him (real gross I know lmao) and it would be a lot for me to even kiss my date on the cheek.
She just needs to understand that's
She's an extrovert
I'm an introvert
She's loud and wild
I'm shy and very quiet
AND the only way I'm gonna tell a guy that I love him is if he's constantly on my mind or I actually feel a loving way towards him, I'm not gonna watch a movie with him and be like "oh well this is love, I love you bae"
I don't know lmao maybe I'll be a hard girl to date in the future
But I think I'll actually be a pretty flattering girlfriend
I mean, not that my sister is doing anything wrong, she's doing it her way and that's good.
But okay so, for Valentine's Day she only got her boyfriend chocolate and not a CARD
WHAT
my mom and I freaked out on her ass
"CHOCOLATES AND NO CARD? OH MY GOD WHY NOT JUST THE CARD, YOU COULD WRITE YOUR FEELINGS IN IT,"
she got pretty ticked.
I much rather get my boyfriend just a card instead of just chocolate, yknow?
Like cards can be really meaningful
And chocolate doesn't last forever like a card does
Ehhhh well I'm rambling
But who gives a shit, I'm gonna continue
I always pick on my sister about her and her boyfriend and my moms like "it's okay, she'll pick on you when you get your own boyfriend,"
Like honey I'm probably gonna be in college by then and I'm most likely gonna be staying in a dorm so I don't think she'll know right away
I mean I probably won't tell my family for at least two weeks just to make sure the relationship is a dud
Sometimes I feel it's best that the relationship is merely between the two people in the relationship, it makes it seem way more intimate rather than sharing it with everyone you know.
Like it's just between you and your significant other, there's no pressure about what other people think, it's only what you two think and I'm pretty sure if someone's dating you, they're kinda probably maybe really into you so I pray to god there wouldn't be any pressure between just the two of you unless he/she is a douche.
Also no hate on my sister, but she blind to red signs in relationships.
My mom had to give her a serious wake up for all 7 of her past relationships.
I however, am not blind to red signs.
In fact I normally get red signs from my sisters boyfriends right off the bat and I'm just like "tsk tsk I'll cut off your dick if you dare to hurt her,"
And okay so not to hate on my sister again, but she never really knows stuff about her boyfriends, at least she doesn't tell me and she normally tells me a lot. But it's completely fine if she's secretive.
But I feel like in a relationship you should know your boyfriends favorite things or passions and dreams and past and everything in between, I think that's what really makes a good and strong relationship instead of being like "ohhhh.,. He likes horror movies and he wants to be a dentist..."
Yknow
Okay
Well I'm done here
My kitten is running wild and my bestfriend is texting me about boy drama lmao this guy she doesn't really like texted her and asked her how her day was and she was like "yadasddada hbu?" And he was like "my day was good cuz it's Friday and bc of you" so she freaked out
So I gotta go, best friend to the rescue
