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Advice Request
This person wants general advice regarding their crush.

Answered Submission
Hello,

There really isn't much in this situation to do. You like him, but not enough that you actually want to entertain a romantic relationship, and you're pretty sure he likes you based on his behavior around you and in response to the subject of "his crush", but he doesn't want to risk ruining your friendship by confessing his feelings.

If you know that neither of you has any plans or desires to change the nature of your relationship, then there is no point in stressing over the notion of a crush on either end. You like him. Cool, happens to the best of us. He likes you. Awesome, love to see it. Neither of you really wants to do anything about it. So don't.

Sometimes, crushes aren't meant to be anything substantial or important. They don't always lead to anything, and just because people pick fun at you both for it, doesn't mean that you have to base your own feelings and actions around their opinions. Just leave it where it is. You can simply acknowledge to yourself that there is a crush, accept your own feelings on the matter, and then set it aside and continue on with your life.

You will probably feel awkward around him for a little bit because of your feelings and because you know about his, but eventually, the awkwardness will go away. And if it really starts to bother you when people tease you about it, then I suggest asking them privately to stop. It's annoying, it makes you uncomfortable, and the joke sounds like it's getting old. Tell them you don't like it when they bring it up all the time, and if they don't respect your wishes the first time, then you can tell them again less privately. And if it comes down to it, you are always able to ask your mom for help.

I hope this helps, love. Good luck, and have fun hanging out with your friends!

Best,
The Advice Column Team