Advice Request
This person hates their life.
Answered Submission
Hello,
I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling this way, and it's important to remember that your worth is not determined by how others perceive you. Take some time to reflect on your strengths and accomplishments. Focus on the things you like about yourself rather than comparing yourself to others. Everyone has unique qualities that make them special. Think about your hobbies and skills. What are you good at? What do you like?
From there, think about what you want to improve on, and instead of comparing yourself to others, focus on that self-improvement. Set personal goals and work towards them. Set small goals for today and tomorrow, and goals for where you wanna be in 6 months. This can help build confidence and a sense of accomplishment. If you're struggling with these feelings, consider talking to someone you trust, whether it's a friend, family member, or counselor. They can provide support and guidance during challenging times.
As for your friends, friend groups can be tricky, but it's essential to remember that the number of friends or their dynamics doesn't determine your value. If you feel left out, try expressing your feelings to your friends. They may not be aware of how you're feeling, and open communication can strengthen your friendships. Honest communication is key in all relationships. If your friends are doing it deliberately or unintentionally, having a talk with them will help you navigate your choices.
On the subject of communication, if you're comfortable, consider talking to your crush about the situation. Share your feelings and let him know that your intention was not to upset him. Sometimes, misunderstandings can be cleared up through open communication. In this, he might be able to clear up whether he was joking or not when he said he hated you. Ultimately though, given that this all stemmed from a game, I wouldn't put too much energy in stressing about it. You can consider apologizing for any unintentional misunderstanding if you feel it necessary, but when it comes down to it, reflect and learn from the situation and use it as an opportunity for personal growth.
I hope this helps, love. Message us again anytime!
Best,
The Advice Column Team
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