49 Biggest blunder (gondogol) in phoolsojja rasam done by ❓

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Before both the pairs sit for post marriage rituals Tupur took Bondita aside when Anirudh and Somnath are bringing das family (kalindi Shomik and Rimjhim only Whereas Tapur and sumati on her own will didn't come there) inside and she revealed to Bondita about ksj and Somnath previous day conversation that they both (Somnath and Tupur) should wait and not to start married life until his  dada and boudi to give heir to this family .

Bondita is shocked to listen this and upset that what kind of pressure is this. Her Patibabu doesn't want all these to happen now. Even she also don't want any distractions. Because she understood the value of education and the worth of being self dependent recently alot

Tupur told with tears (out of hormonal changes and affected by society words, traditional lifestyle due to situations she is grown up from childhood) that : Dekh Bondita for me I don't want to be highly educated and work equally with men.  All I dreamt is to have happy married life and children with the person whom I love and stay as an obedient house wife and bahu to sasural. Is it wrong on my side to dream a normal life?

Bondita shooked her head, her sister is correct in her view even she also want a normal married life with Patibabu in nearby future as per his  prescribed age of 18 years.

Tupur again asked  that : Then how can ksj ask Somnath ji like that and my husband also gave word last night without asking me. Please do a favour to me Bondita

Bondita asked : what Tupur (she is guessing inside what her sister may ask)

Tupur : For our sake for ksj sake  and for this family sake  you start married life with your Patibabu

Bondita looked shocked and Tupur continued : If you give heir first then only we both can start happy married life. Try to understand Bondita. Else ksj may humiliate me or scold me

Bondita: It's impossible Tupur. Neither me nor my patibabu are ready for this stage. I don't know much details about that phoolsojja rasam. Although Thakuma told me in harsh way I have many doubts and I want clarification on many things from Patibabu

Tupur : what preparation and clarification is needed for this Bondita. EVERY girl will feel new and scared only in starting but everyone will start it one day na. By the way I heard that it's husband's job to do everything and wife should keep quiet and endure the pain. That's it

Bondita looked horrified and gasped : PAIN !?

Tupur: haa pain , I also don't know but I heard Thakuma scolding a new bride in Krishnanagar who came as patient after this rasam telling that much pain will be there and Thakuma scolded that girl's should have the mental ability to endure pain.

(Bondita heart is dropped assuming pain but Tupur is in her mode she soon wants to become mother as her mother and Thakuma used to preach everyone which she always used to listen that having child will only complete married life  so she is continuing Without bothering about Bondita's feelings)

For my sake and my husband's sake please Bondita. Tell your Patibabu I mean jethji to do phoolsojja rasam. Ask your Patibabu to change his thinking

Just then Trilochan called them and their conversation is cut. Bondita is in dilemma and worried

With disturbed minds Bondita and Tupur came and  sat for rasams. Her Patibabu is looking pleasant and smiling at her serenely. She too smiled back inconveniently and feeling very embarassed to face him assuming pain and ackward work done during phoolsojja rasam

If she brings this topic out he will upset and again distance may come between them. If kept quiet then Somnath dada and Tupur had to suffer because of them. What to do

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