This is from Samiya. She didn't leave a username so I don't know who she is. Please guys unless you want to be anonymous leave your username in the email. Otherwise I won't know.
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Hi, Des, I wanted to ask this, is it too old for a 17 year old, well I turn 17 in February to date some one like 20 almost 21?
Okay so I've been talking to this dude for a few months and honestly he chill as fuck, and he don't be on that sex type stuff you know. He be chilling. I also told him we could be friends before we make any type of step.
He's like those low-key dudes who's about their money. (Trust me, he let me go through his phone.) But thing is, I have 2 older brother's who won't accept it. Period. Like my brother is 19 & the other is 17 (me and him are 9 months apart), but it's weird, because I'm actually feeling this guy. And when I say, I NEVER catch feelings, NEVER.
How should I approach my brothers? My mama, sister? I mean it's hard being that he is basically 21, helppppp.
Plus, me and him are just friends, but act on a more than friend level.
My problem is, that I'm scared of being judged or being ranked into the young girl being hot type of category.
I need help! Should I leave it alone or should I continue to talk to him?
