Girl Talk

The Sad Truth of Self-Hate

I saw this and I thought I'd share because I see a self-hate problem on wattpad as well.

So Tyrese is doing a video and his leading lady is Vbozeman. She posted a pic for the video below and then she posted a comment about how a lot of people were saying she was ugly and too dark and stuff like that.

I'm going to post her comment. But the funny thing is, we as black people and specifically black women always complain about men go for the light skinned or the exoticals, or the women with the perfect body, but sometimes we tear ourselves down better than anybody ever could.

As for wattpad, I see it a lot. The same
Girls who are getting looked over, spew hate in the comments when a writer chooses a Nonextoxical as a lead.

You'll be surprised at the smoky of negative comments I've got about Amber's weight or I should've chose someone else. Like wtf?

Or even Jazmine Sullivan who've I've used before.

And then reading comments under folks pics sometimes, especially
On the shaderoom about other women, from
Women is so fucking sad.

I'm going to post V's response to the hate but I will say if you look at another black woman who is dark or full figured or anything, and yet you look at an exotical like this with heart eyes

YOU ARE APART OF THE PROBLEM.

I can't tell you how disgusted I am with the amount of women and young girls who will drag another woman for her looks, yet want to cry that men pass them up. Or just looking at what women get a pass if their "fav" likes them vs another girl, simply based on their looks. It's pathetic and hypocritical at its finest.

Black women already have countless enemies, we shouldn't be enemies of each other.

Self hate is real. And I'm not interested in being apart of it.

V's response