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Advice Request
This person is having some trouble with their mom coming to terms with them coming out.

Answered Submission
Hello there!

From your situation, the way you can handle this is by having a serious conversation with your mom about how what you're in is not a choice you made because you're just jumping on a bandwagon. It's how you feel, and try to tell your mother how you, even as a girl, can protect yourself. There are a lot of badass females in this world. Your mother might not understand it at first, but you have to make your stand and be patient. Right now, to go back to the time when your mom didn't know would be hard since you're in the present and the past cannot be changed. Things, unfortunately and also fortunately, change, so I hope your situation with your mother will improve in time.

As for your friend who came out: why don't you start hanging out with her as opposed to your friends that stopped talking to her when she came out?

I hope this helps.

Love,

The Advice Column Team

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