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Advice Request
This person is jealous of their friend's girlfriend.

Answered Submission
Hey there!

From what you have described, it seems to me as if your jealousy simply stems from the fact that (despite being rejected over and over by you) the friend in question has found a girlfriend instead of being upset over your rejection.

Like you said, you had this coming. Had you not rejected him over and over, it would have been evident that you had some sort of feelings for your friend.

In regards to not feeling jealous, the best thing you can do is to find someone else to date. Also, join some extra-curricular activities or clubs. Pick up a new hobby to keep you occupied and help you get your mind off of it.

If your jealousy stems from the fact that you miss being the "closest girl" to him, then I suggest having a heart-to-heart conversation with him about your friendship. Tell him how you'd like for the both of you to care about each other regardless of this change. This romantic relationship doesn't need to stand in the way of your friendship.

I wish you the best of luck with your friend!

Love,
The Advice Column Team

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