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Advice Request
This person wants to know what the person sitting next to them in class is feeling.

Answered Submission
Hey there!

Well, to me, it seems like guy #1 is suffering from a loss of ego because he didn't get your number. It was definitely not your fault that you didn't want to give him your number, and that's absolutely no reason for him to be rude to you!

Often, if a guy is "rejected" by a girl, he feels as if his pride is lost, and therefore, he decides to take it out on someone. In some cases, he takes it out on the girl herself by being a jerk towards her.

There are a few ways to go about this:

1. If you still want to be on talking terms with him, you can tell guy #1 to stop being rude to you over such a small issue, because you are at perfect liberty to reject whoever you want to. He should know this and stop the rudeness.

2. You can ignore guy #1, if he continues to be horrible to you.

Love,

The Advice Column Team