BULLIED

Story 54

I have been through the pain of 1 single bully for 4 years now.

This bully in particular has tormented me since she arrived to the school I go to in 2nd grade. It started small, teasing me for being to skinny, and then she spread enough rumors to take away my supposed best friend in third grade, but the ex-bff had left before fourth grade.

Since then, she has took away all of my friends and acquaintances except 1. She was very popular and had been my friend for years. The bully cannot convince them

to not be my friend because they would never betray a friend. The bully hasn't made them unpopular

because they has more friends than the bully and is not a threat like I am.


I have realized because me and the bully have a large ego, she pushes me down to stay on the top.

My mother (Like most mothers) tells me that the bully is just jealous because she is really fat and

I am slim and athletic. The bully has the most pretty girls in the grade as her friends and I think

that is because if they weren't her friends she could become unpopular. There is another girl, who stood up to the bully and is now unpopular like me. The bully’s friends are really pretty and have a big personality like the bully and myself. I have told the 2 classmates that the only reason the bully is their friend is because if they weren't she'd become unpopular, and they didn't listen to me because the bully brainwashed them and most people my age that go to my school that I (A)Pick my nose(B)Am a loser/nerd(C)am a disgusting wannabe. One time, the bullying escalated enough that the bully had 2 classmates (both boys) shove me around, and them one of her 2 personal friends slap me. The vice principal said that I had 'gotten' myself in trouble and that I was the problem. Due to this, I stopped telling anyone about the bullying.


Due to the bully's planning, she got a boy I like to date me for 1 day and break up with me only to make a fool of myself, along with having a boy go on facebook with a picture of me with some nasty words on it. But, I didn't let her have the satisfaction of seeing me cry. I stayed strong and fought against her. My mother had gotten so fed up that she decided I would change schools because off the verbal (and once physical) abuse I have gotten that would not be resulted properly with the principal involving suspensions, along with the fact that the Vice principal threatened to suspend me for being the reason for the unsafe environment.

What type of bullying did you experience (cyberbullying, teasing, name calling, physical altercations, etc.)?

Teasing, cyber bullying ,name calling, physical altercations, isolation.

How old were you when the bullying started?

7.

Who bullied you (please be vague by using terms such as old friend, classmate, neighbor, etc.)?

New classmate and a herd of others.

How did you feel while you were being bullied?

 Depressed.

How did you feel after being bullied?

Freedom.

Have you told anyone you know that you were bullied? Why/why not?

 Yes, because I needed to get it out or I thought I would explode.

 

How long were you bullied for?

 4 years.   

 

Are you still being bullied?

luckily, no.