BULLIED

Submission 854

So hello guys, this is @posiedon2013 and I have some advice for all the people getting bullied. This was the number one coping skill I used during bullying.

When I was or when I am getting bullied, to not let it stand in the way of who I am and making me cry, I'd just vision the future. Where there would be a reunion for everyone in my class.

I'd imagine myself being the most successful there while everyone else were uneducated in college or didn't even meet the requirements to even be to where I was. I'd imagine the begging me for forgiveness and to become their friend because of how good I got over the years.

I'd Imagine myself laughing in their faces and telling them that maybe if they had been nice to me and not bullied me, they would have had the chance to become my friend.

Then they'd be the ones feeling down and ashamed. I'd run all my success in their faces and make them jealous. Because that's what they deserve.

No they don't deserve your violence through any mental or physical actions. What you deserve is sucecss and they deserve failure. It has been documented and is a fact that most bullies in school turn out to be failures because of the way they acted in school and it also leads to countless other bad things.

All those things they deserve, but for all the time of happiness they took from you, you can get back.

Personally I think that bullying helps make us who we are. We use all those negative comments and feelings from everyone who has every done something to us and we use it as fuel to work towards our goals and our successes.

Nothing is impossible, so all those people who called you skinny, fat, too tall, too short, too ugly, too dumb, too poor, you have to prove them wrong. You have to work hard for everything that you wanted. One of the things that never wane is the feelings from everything that has been told to us that we couldn't be who we wanted or we weren't who thought we were.

Everyone has the capability to change your own life. You just have to work hard. Bullying isn't such a bad thing because its one of the things that teach us how to realize who we are and if we finally accept ourselves for who we are.

And if not, then we can always change it. Everyone has opportunities in this world. Maybe not as much as others, but you can get to that point, but only if you believe in yourself and put it into action.

Its time for our generation to stop thinking so negatively of ourselves and work to where we wanna be or accept ourselves as who we are. We all are humans and sinners.

No one is perfect and I love each and every person in this world. Including my own bullies.

So this is my advice on how to get through bullying. You can always private message me if you need someone to talk to. I have ton of experience with bullying so I will have a understanding of what you've been through.

If I can make it through bullying and become who I am, then I know you can too;)